[Salvanas]

Originally Posted by MMM

Mercedesjin is in Japan, so I made the assumption this is about Japan.

You are right, you have a right to your opinion. My point is, what is "asking for it" in one culture is not "asking for it" in another. So we have to be aware of our own prejudices when making a judgement like that.

I understand. It's a good point, but unfortunately, it doesn't change anything of how I think. All it changes, is instead of me saying;

"It's wrong. They had it coming. I say this because I don't think it's right."

to

"It's wrong. They had it coming. I say this because my culture disagrees with it."

We come to the same conclusion.

Salvania, go and ask your Mother for some mature advice, then go and have a serious talk to yourself.

Perhaps you should start acting your age, and not try and flirt with young girls online.

But that's just my age speaking, right? I mean, you're right. Being 19 suddenly makes my points invalid, and makes me immature.

Get over yourself.

I think it's quite lame that most guys believe that girls dress up for THEIR sake. Personally, when I dress up, I do it because it makes me feel good about myself, and people with confidence usually look the best, if you ask me.

If a girl wears a short skirt - then that's her choice. It doesn't mean she's screaming out ''Oh please f'ck me, mighty gentlemen''. To me it sounds like she could pull it off in this case. If I could pull off super short skirts.. hell, I'd dress up every single day too.

I think it's about time we start seing things in the bigger perspective. Girls can look hot without asking for sex. As it's been said many times before in several threads, we cannot help the way we look. I don't see why some girl looking fine in a school uniform 'has it coming' more than the girl wearing jeans and a top. Style doesn't only represent what we 'have', but also who we are. Yet, I'd still prefer people to not judge a girl on her looks. There are girls who dress up in sweaters and baggy jeans who'd like sex just as much as a girl looking sexy struttin' her stuff down the street.

So, women dress to the point of nudity (in cultures such as England and America, for example. Not a culture that accepts nudity.) as a way of feeling confident?

That makes no sense.

As I said beforehand. You can look good, and sexy, and comfortable, without having to show cleavage, both breast and arse. A women that shows such things, obviously knows the effect it has on men, and knowing that, they still wear it.

The majority of school girls over here in the UK seem to have this new game they play with their lives. It's called "Who can have sex first." And usually wear their skirts high to attract older boys.

It's not rare to see a 14 year old girl going out with a 16, or a 16 year old girl going out with a 20 year old. For what reason? Sex is the only reason.

One thing I want to know, is the thought process going through a woman's mind, as she's getting into her mini skirt, and cleavage showing top.