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Originally Posted by Salvanas
I would disrespect them for going out of their way to make me a meal that, if they didn't know me, I would enjoy more, in their eyes. Since there are many people that do not enjoy a Japanese meal.
I come from a highly Arabian background, and our culture is a lot about being a host. We find it very important to make the person very comfortable when we're hosting for them, and so we try all in our power to make them feel uncomfortable. If that means making them a meal, that would cater to them more, then so be it.
Firstly: We're talking about food here. There's a difference.
But I'll take the bait, since you've spent the time setting it out.
Outcome 1, would be better in many cultured peoples eyes (Note: Cultured), and you would gain respect for going according to the culture if you are in their country.
If you are, however, speaking about appeasing to cultures when you're in, let's say America, then that's a totally different thing. America's culture, is a mixed pot of different stews. You would live the American way there.
I am talking about, let's say, if you went to a Japanese restaurant, or Japan. Then following the cultures is the way to go. To not do so, is disrespectful, and arrogant.
Your arrogance will one day be your undoing.
To presume yourself above cultures is wrong. I just pray that you don't come across someone you slight, that will take it up to you with force.
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Go and take a rest, PLEASE, for the sake of all of us!