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12-18-2009, 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by WhoIsDaffy View Post
I think you will find Tenchu was making a particular specific point, and having a little dig by calling me a bogan (i won't deny it ) and pointing out quite correctly that one really shouldn't use a dessert spoon for mains [correct me if im wrong there T]

hmmm it almost hurts cos you try so hard
Tenchu aside, I was raised to set a proper, over-pompous, British 12 piece place setting and how to use (or not use) each component, even to the inane American practice of shifting the fork back and forth when using a knife to cut the food.

But my point is that rather than focus on my own customs when eating, I adhere to those of the person providing the food out of respect for their talent and/or generosity.

In some ways that could fly in the face of some Emily Post Ettiquette Maven, but I have yet to have the practice offend my host.


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