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Originally Posted by RobinMask
Ignoring the less mature points for the ones where you pose good questions. Firstly there is nothing wrong with talking to someone of the opposite sex, the OP made it clear they aren't dating or sleeping together so at the moment they're just friends. I speak to some of my friends daily, it wouldn't mean I'm 'cheating' or whatever just because those friends happen to be of opposite gender. (Edit: In which case it doesn't matter if her bf knows as nothing is going on.)
Secondly, if she does decide she has feelings for the OP how'd you know she won't tell her bf right away, or leave him for the OP? You're judging this girl and you don't even know her, what she's doing or how she feels. There's no reason to assume she's the kind of girl you make her out to be.
Thirdly, fair enough, sex for sex sake isn't a problem, providing both parties understand nothing more is involved, but how you worded your first post to me seemed more like 'lead her on'. I - however - take back my point on that matter and apologise if I misunderstood you. Although frankly you could be more mature.
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Your posts are getting VERY confusing!