[IamKira]

I'd have to agree w/ daffy... at least on the aspect that if she ends up cheating on him by going out for a date with you then you gotta start thinking "what is the chance she'd do the same to me".. and that point you should just 'have' her and be done with it

only try to develop a non-sexual as well as sexual relationship if she fully breaks up with the dude for you