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12-22-2009, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by RobinMask View Post
:S They are? Sorry, I thought I worded myself clearly. I was juggling between an essay, this site and several other things at the time; if I was unclear it was probably as I was distracted.
There was nothing unclear in your message to anyone who is reading it without a preconceived notion.

What the crew here with apparently more testosterone than they can manage continue to miss is, as you pointed out, conversations with someone other than a BF or SF is not "cheating" on anyone. In fact, when a significant other prohibits such conversations its one of the first warning flags that both the legal and psychiatric communities see as a sign of potentially abusive relationships.

Of course, if she spends considerably more time with the other person (male or female) than the so-called boyfriend, then there is a cause for complaint from the BF and maybe the other person too, depending on how far the conversations have gone.


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