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Originally Posted by MMM
Statements like this bug me, and we get them here once in a while. I know you aren't asking, but since it is a public forum, I'll give you some food for thought.
She has decided not to see you, and there is no future with you. That is not a "rough patch" that is a "break up". You may feel it is something you can work through, but she doesn't. Please don't torture this girl any further. Let her go so she can go on to find a guy that will treat her how she wants to be treated.
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I lean towards agreeing, but on the other hand, my fiancée did tell me "goodbye forever" twice while I was in Japan and she was in the UK and USA. I went through great pains to hold us together—many would have definitely said it was irrational at the time. Four years later, we're getting married in April.
Then again, this is different since it appears they have no plans to live in the same country again. And I wasn't living with another girl and basically having an emotional relationship with the other girl while going through this.