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Originally Posted by iPhantom

Being NOT selfish doesn't mean you don't have to be happy for something you do for others. Being selfish means being happy for yourself without benefiting others, which is not the case here.

Yes but I mean that when you fall in love with someone you want to spend time with them because they make you feel good. I think that can be considered selfish because you try to make yourself happy by being with him or her, I'm not saying that's selfish in a bad way.