I know it's not Rpg, but I would recommend the Silent Hill series if you like horror games. It's a great storyline abd feel so sucked into it. I guess both genders would find it cool, because I've seen girls play it
Silent Hill 2 trailer:
YouTube - Silent Hill 2 Trailer
it's said to be the best on in the series :3
A Rpg girls would like is Neosteam, it's free to play