[smbx33]

I sense a lot of pain in your heart.

I know a lot of old people who have been married all their lives and young people who are still going strong. What Americans lack is the will power to communicate issues before they grow out of proportion and blow up into something unsolvable.

I would actually rather be together with a person and say we are married than to actually get married just because that way if it doesn't work out its not a big deal, I can move on.