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Originally Posted by IamKira
very true. i can't tell you how many times i have been shunned by girls when executing a strategy of "nice guy" characteristics only to find them with jackasses later on
to be honest it's driven me to rape thought - i would never ever do that, but whenever i see a girl i would like to court, she is always with a guy.. i can seem to find them not in a relationship - and i end up imagining what it would be like.. but again, i can't see being able to bring myself to do such an act.
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Well then I'm giving you the advice I wish I would have gotten 10 years ago. Don't act nice. Of course show interest but no nice, not a speck of it. In fact try to keep the acting to a minimum unless you're a professional actor. That's about the only valid thing in the whole "be yourself" cliché. Yes, be yourself because most people are naturally jerks and this is what girls find attractive regardless of whatever girly babble they spout.