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Originally Posted by Tyrien
Sigh... stop telling people they don't understand something when you can't bother to actually read what they're saying.
I'm agreeing with you, but I'm stating that we all react for ourselves as the primary concern. Everything we do is for ourselves LONG before we consciously decide it's for someone else.
Fine though, apparently you refuse to accept the fact that there are multiple perspectives to an issue. I'm not re-wording what I've said in yet another hope that you'll understand it.
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Stop assuming I never read what you said, making it like what you said is right. If you aren't aware this has been a huge debate between parties for years up to now.
Unconscious decisions do not decide if you are selfish or not. It's your conscious which makes you the person you are, and the one making up your primary decisions. Which leads back to my point. The subconscious thing cannot be prevented, but it's a secondary effect of our main decision.
You save a person dear to you because you love them and would want the best for them ---> Happy | You don't save a person dear to you ---> Sad
It's not the way around. It's not 'You want to become happy ---> Go save a person dear to you'.
I used the easiest method to show to you, with text schemes. Hope it's clear now.
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Originally Posted by gyl0119
Tyrien, Like Jason has stated, he refuses the gray areas, he can only comprehend black/white, which is the standard set by our society.
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When did I refuse gray areas? I agreed that you do a little bit for yourself when loving someone, but it's the interpretation you're doing which is wrong. Read above your quote here to find out.