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02-09-2010, 12:02 AM

I dunno, her feelings for him are very strong. It's hard if that someone can't (or won't) return those feelings to you, it hurts even more if that person gets into a relationship with someone else.

"Getting another guy" may sound simple enough, but dammit, it just doesn't work this way.

The only solution I can think of now is the following:

Talk it over, lay it bare and sort it out. Together. A romance may be inpossible, but this way you can save this friendship an you both can find someone to be happy with.

Yes, you may get hurt. Yes, it will suck like the void itself. But you won't be torturing yourself like you do now. I got a pretty good idea how you feel right now. Trust me. Be honest with him. He was honest with you. If you sort it out together, you'll stay friends. Then again, you may turn him around. Who knows if you don't try?


We few, we happy few, we band of brothers;
For he to-day that sheds his blood with me
Shall be my brother; be he ne'er so vile,
This day shall gentle his condition:
And gentlemen in England now a-bed
Shall think themselves accursed they were not here,
And hold their manhoods cheap whiles any speaks
That fought with us upon Saint Crispin's day.
Henry V, St. Crispin Day speech