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Originally Posted by Ronin4hire
dont expect anything deep.
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Why do you think so?
My Japanese fiance and I are madly in love.
But then again, maybe she's having an online/in person relationship with someone from another hemisphere for the past 4 years, spending thousands of dollars to visit me every year, maybe that's not deep? Maybe she's doing it for the sake of "being in a relationship?"
Maybe my Japanese fiancee's sister is married to an Australian man for the past 17 years "just to be in a relationship." And maybe her daughter is a product of "just being in a relationship."
And maybe my best friend's Japanese girlfriend is in a relationship just for the sake of it. And maybe bELyVIS's wife is in it for just for the sake of "being in a relationship." Maybe my Japanese lady friend Kumi is engaged to a man from France for "the sake of being in a relationship."
I'm not one to shut down another person's opinions, but frankly the opinions I've been reading in this thread are just ridiculously stupid and not to mention, very far from reality, down right absurd. Especially that of Ronin4hire and Sangetsu. If you asked me, they are the one's living in a fantasy world.
Seems to me like Ronin4hire and Sangetsu think Japan is a loveless nation.
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Originally Posted by Sangetsu
The foremost thing you should be looking for in a partner is mutual love, not race.
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Take the following scenario:
You're attracted to Japanese females.
You're at a bar. You see two females, both alone. One is Japanese, and one is Black.
Which one are you going to start a conversation with? Easy, the Japanese.
Then, you start a relationship with the Japanese female.
You won't start a relationship with the black female because you are not attracted to black women.
Have you ever been in a relationship? Not third grade puppy love, but an actual relationship?
What you're looking for is what you'll look for. I don't think you, or anyone else is in any place to tell anyone "what they should be looking for."