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Originally Posted by alanX
You're right, that happens. Sometimes.
You're leaving out half of the story, which I don't think is very fair.
Saying: "Japanese women often marry for the sake of being married, and have less of an emotional attachment."
Is an extremely blind assumption in my opinion.
Japanese or not, women don't just go around marrying for no reason.
You're making it seem like Japanese woman are a loveless people that go out and marry people they met ten minutes ago.
I'd say, quite the contrary.
I'd strongly disagree with this.
Finding a Japanese woman that loves you is just as hard as finding a woman of ANY race that loves you.
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It's not a blind assumption, it's a fact. Unfortunately, I would say that most Japanese relationships are in fact loveless. Last year there was a study published showing Japanese couple have less sex than any other nationality, which pretty much confirms my opinion.
A Japanese woman (or man) will not marry someone they met 10 minutes ago, but they are quite capable of marrying someone they don't love, as love isn't necessarily thought to be the most important part of a marriage.
I've been around quite a bit longer than you have, and I have any number of Japanese friends and acquaintances (actually, everyone I know now is Japanese), both single and married. I don't have the time to describe the stories, but I say what I know from experience to be true.
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