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Originally Posted by Nyororin
Thank you - glad I`m not the only one that noticed this.
"Japanese women are great!"... "Japanese men suck!" ... Also sounds the same to me, minus a few doses of obnoxiousness.
Your girlfriend/wife is clearly great. No one is going to debate that - regardless of whether it has anything to do with nationality/race. If that weren`t the case you most likely wouldn`t be with them.
But I don`t think you`re realizing that you are tossing insults in the direction of me - as my husband is Japanese, so clearly must suck to date and must have no concept of "ladies first" and must be incapable of treating me well, etc etc etc ad infinitum. Or maybe I just don`t deserve to be treated well as I`m not Japanese, so it`s okay?
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I also said "My wife felt Japanese men didn't treat her well". I never said Japanese men suck. I have Japanese guy friends that I know are nice guys, but how am I responsible for how some Japanese women feel?
My reasoning for liking Japanese women isn't about race, it's more cultural with how they are raised. If I felt American women acted the same, I wouldn't have been attracted to Japanese women is my guess.
I'm sure your husband treats you well and you are smart enough to know how you like being treated, so why do we have to explain ourselves?
Besides, why should we take advice from someone who downgrades Japanese women by saying "only losers who can't get a date at home only date Japanese women" and refers to them as "little Geishas"? Clearly this person is more of a racist then someone who says they prefer to date or marry a certain type.