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Nyororin, I know not all people from any country or culture are alike. But you do have to admit that those who are non conformist are rare. I know a few women here who are close to what I was looking for, but something was just missing in my opinion.
Please don't think that I hate American women, and I don't think you are typical and would not want to insult you. And please don't think I would insult your husband either. My Father in law and Brother in law are not typical Japanese men. They are very different in that they are very open minded and treat the women in their lives respectfully and equal (sometimes my Mother in law wants to be more than equal but he is OK with that too). Younger men are changing for the better also.
The whole thing is that we have to find who we are looking for in life to be happy with. Sure it might take some time and bad experiences, but how else do we learn? It just so happened that your someone and mine came from a long way away. If we would have to have crossed the Earth to find them, I'm sure we would have. I just learned not to settle for what is available over what I want.