[RickOShay]

She is saying you need to be sensitive towards others feelings before you go spilling your own guts. I think she is implying that maybe the other person (whoever that may be refering to) is having issues too, and you should think about them and how they feel and how you will make them feel if you spill all your problems to them. Just be sensitive, communciation is a two way street, think about other peoples feeling first.. etc. etc. etc.
got it?