Umm without knowing anything about your situation, I would say she is saying you maybe need to be more sensitive about how she feels, and not only think about yourself when you guys talk.. but that is just speculation since I know nothing about the two of you. Or she could be in general just saying you are too dense (like a lot of guys) and need to open your more sensitive side.
It sounds like a lot of girly mumbo-jumbo to me, but you just gotta smile and put on your "yes ma'am face", cuz the only way men can ever really win against women (and their feelings) is to lose.
