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Originally Posted by yukikosan
since when?? Since forever !! I mean there is no world rule against that!!
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Different cultures have different thoughts about that. Your cultural standards are not necessarily universal.
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Originally Posted by yukikosan
We are all free humain being and if I want to give a Lebanese name to my daughter I have the right to do so, I don't have to ask a permission, the same way as if I pick a religion I'm free to follow it by the book or with my values!!
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But that doesn't mean that culture has to accept your decision.
You asked if this would be accepted, and you got your answer. It is too bad it was not the answer you wanted.
Like some cultures, some religions are more strict than others. You can choose to be whatever religion you want, but in some religions improper activities are punishable...so your values may not be accepted by that religion. I think it is a two-way street.
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It's not because you grow in a culture that you have to stick to it in every way for your entire life!
I come from a French Canadian catholic culture.
As a teenager, I decided to change religion, because I didn't beleive the Christian one... Is that a crime?? A silly thing! No, it's called freedom !
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If want to name yourself "Table" then feel free! But that doesn't mean I have to think it isn't silly or strange.
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Originally Posted by yukikosan
And I am not gonna change legally for a kanji. I changed legally for Yuki, the kanji is only for me, to "use" the Japanese name correctly, because even if I am not Japanese , Yuki IS a Japanese name and so, should nit be in katakana, is it not a foreign laguage.
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Since Yoko Ono was born in the US her name was (and is) written in katakana. She is Japanese with Japanese blood and Japanese parents who has a katakana name. Japanese names in kanji are reserved for Japanese citizens.
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And yes, I am learning Japanese language actualy and I read about the culture.
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So this shouldn't be news to you.
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I didn't change my name to Yuki by respect... I changed it for a personnal reason and i chose Yuki because I love this name!
I want to gave a kanj. By respect, not the same thing here!
But maybe I don't have the same vision of respect than Japaneses do.
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I think you do not have the same vision of respecting another culture as Japanese do, so I would drop the kanji. If you want to write your name in Japanese, use katakana. That is showing respect.