I totally understand. Same here...find the things that you like, maybe it's putting on make-up, or maybe it's going for bike rides, perhaps it's going to watch a funny movie! Find the things that you like to do, and do them! Also, root yourself in some good girlfriends; one who'll back you up, listen to you, and go along with you on the things you like tio do! It's important to not be alone too much. Some quiet time with your thoughts is always good, but don't be alone all the time, it's just going to make the sorrow even worse.
I hope it helps! I've been doing this, and it's been going well. It doesn't mean you won't ever think of him, and never miss him. You wouldn't be human if you didn't! That's okay if you do. Just always remember, you're just as good a woman, even if you don't have a man by your side!!
You go, Nobora!!! XD
~HJG~
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Originally Posted by nobora
it's over between me and my not bf. he broke up with me. and yet i still look to see if i have a message from him. how can i get over him? help me please
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