so I'm going to have to kick someone's.... Never mind.
Anyway, I'm glad this is here. I got called "fujoshi" and an anime con last year and had no idea what is was. Reading this, I don't think they knew what it meant either-- I wasn't even cosplaying. I was just taking pictures for my blog. (I did hug a Sasuke cosplayer because he was *hot*)
As far as I'm concerned, just say "I like anime". It works for me.