Activities I enjoy...
Lucky Dip Massage
- Get a piece of paper and write down the names of different body parts (hands, back, etc)
- Cut each word out separately and put it in an empty jar or container
- Take turns drawing one paper at a time and having your partner massage you on the body part you've picked
- Decide what your time limit will be (5-10 minutes is normally best to start off with)
Adult Lucky Dip
- Get a piece of paper and write down the names of different body parts
- Cut each word out separately and put in an empty jar or container
- On a second sheet of paper write down different actions (nibble, kiss, breathe, etc) then cut each word out separately and add them to the jar/container as well
- Like with the massage dip take turns drawing except this time draw one body part and one action per turn
- It's more fun if you keep the time limit short, so 5-10 minutes is still best
Think of something you really don't like doing but your partner really enjoys and do that. Take turns.
Pick a new hobby for you both to try together and do it at home. Or sign up to a community class at your local school/hall/etc.
Just because you love each other it doesn't mean you
have to spend the day doing couple stuff. Maybe having an hour or more just enjoying each other's company while still doing your own thing (reading, watching sports, etc) could work.
Tackle those annoying home jobs you've been meaning to do but never have the time for. Like fixing the leaky pipe in the bathroom or painting the spare bedroom.
Do a house clean and get rid of all the junk you've been accumulating for years and never actually use. Chuck out all the ratty stuff. Hold an informal swap meet with friends and/or donate the leftovers to charity. Some charities will come and pick items up which saves you the hassle of having to go anywhere.
If it's not too cheesy and you've got the friends to do it, double date. If the weather's too horrible to go out you can still have them over or go to theirs and do the cooking/movies thing.
You might not like it but if you're game then think about giving your boyfriend or girlfriend a lapdance. Wear your sexiest outfit, enforce a "No touching" rule and put on a show.
Turn your bathroom or living room into a day spa. Take turns giving each other treatments like a facial, a foot scrub, a manicure or a pedicure. Jump in the shower together and make an event out of getting clean by soaping each other down. Once you're done if you have a bathtub and it's big enough you can enjoy a long soak together or a bubble bath.
On a tamer note, try dancing. Yep just regular dancing at home. Hire a "Learn to dance [insert style here]" DVD from a video store or a library, or just get clips online. Dancing's a really good way to stay fit and flexible as well as learn rhythym and coordination. You might like it.
That's all I've got for now.