[Brass]

I'm looking for a site where I can maybe penpal with some guys in Japan and possibly stay with them (again, no homo) when I come visit and he can help me get immersed with Japanese culture and just hang out with me while I'm there and also help me out with picking up Japanese girls.

I am looking for this because I have been trying to go to Japan for years with some of my friends but they are always broke and always come up with some kind of excuse (usually relating to money) as to why they can't go. I am fed up with it and want to just go by myself.

I want to go at least 2 times a year, maybe for a week each time. During summer and during winter or something along those lines. I'm looking to slowly get acclimated to Japanese life, culture, and women, and I think having a friend in japan I can hang out with would be very useful and I make a new friend on top of that.

I know there are tons of penpal websites but is there something more geared to people who plan to make friends with them in real life?