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Originally Posted by Tsuwabuki
I haven't made a final decision as to what I'm doing yet, and I never intended to do this immediately. I was far more concerned with whether it was even possible or allowed when I made the thread.
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TBH, I don't quite see how you can raise an adopted child in Japan when you yourself dont like so many aspects of Japanese culture as it's obvious from your new thread.
I mean, how do you even want the child to grow up? Like a happy, regular Japanese kid in your town or an unhappy, complaining "foreign" kid just like you? If your kid grows up to be like you, s/he is going to have nothing but problems at school, too, which is funny when the daddy or mommy is a school teacher. S/He is not going like what is taught there. No schools in Japan teach kids to be good Texans. It would be extremely tough for the kid to have to live by those double standards.