Brass,
You talk about how superficial America is.
Who is the guy who was dating a single mother, but wanted to break it off, but didn't know how because she treated you so well?
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I have been dating someone for about 4 months but didn't plan to stay with her this long for various reasons (one of the major ones is that she has kids from a ex boyfriend). I planned for this to be a short fling but she is a really nice person and she treats me well. Do you guys have any suggestions on how I should approach this situation? I feel like a complete ass for not wanting a real LTR with her but the honest truth is I don't want a LTR with someone who has kids.
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How superficial is that? You would sacrifice a kid for your own pleasure.
I think you do not know what superficial means, and for a guy in his late 20s know very little about the world around you. It seems if people don't meet your needs, they are then superficial. Maybe going to Japan would be a good eye-opener for you. or maybe you would be convinced Japan is another place where women don't fall to your feet begging for your attention.
If you hate America so much, please go out and see the world. That is the best way for you to learn how good you really have it here.
Do you think people don't look up to the rich, famous and beautiful in Japan? In India? in the UK? in China?
I am not sure where you live in the US, and I can understand complaining about the Hollywood culture if you live in Hollywood, but I live in Oregon, where you can associate yourself with that "shallow" culture as much or as little as you like.
In my experience most people that lump Americans all as "shallow" or "superficial" or words like that have generally seen little of America. They are also generally teenagers or pre-teenagers, and that is what you sound like.
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I'm not putting down every single woman in this country.
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Look at the title of the thread.