[TalnSG]

Gotpike makes a reasonable point.

If the Japanese can adopt (almost take over) European dress styles for the all-too-well-known Lolita look, they should be more open to westerners adopting their mode of dress.

At least most westerners who wear traditional Japanese clothes are not intending to ridicule or pervert it. The "Lolitas" cannot make the same claim. And this is without even considering some of the more extreme western styles that have been adopted by younger generations.

As long as the look is respectful of the tradition, I think one should be honored if a foreigner wants to wear your traditional dress.

But I would not include very specialized aspects such as religious garments or make-up that tends toward the theatrical (kabuki, or specific makeup & hair for a maiko). That would be an indication of either not understanding what you were doing or having no respect.

In the U.S., I wear two different haori with long skirts to make my own version of a rather unique, practical and stylish woman's suit. I wear my yukata around the house most of the time.

But few weeks ago when I was on a trip for a Daito-ryu workshop and staying in the dojo, I did ask one of my host's opinions before packing my yakuta to change into from my gi.

I also happen to own a Happi coat which makes me feel rather self concious when I wear it (only at local festivals), but since it was a gift from a very honored professor I wear it proudly and defy anyone to criticize it.