[Neffiline]

Like many others have said, it's normal to look at others, perhaps to you it seems like a lot because YOU don't look at other guys as much as he seems to look at other girls, right? I know how you feel, I feel like this sometimes too. When I'm in a relationship, often I forget about any other guys on the street, I don't see them go by even if they look like David Beckham. Lol

I spoke to my boyfriend about checking out other girls and he said exactly what everyone here has said: "I'm with you! It's next to you I sleep at night!" So, I remind myself of that when I'm insecure.

If it feels cold between you guys, suggest an activity you can do just the two of you, or simply go up to him for a hug or to cuddle. Sometimes guys don't notice the little details or how you're feeling if you don't speak up. When I feel it's awkward between my boyfriend and I, I move closer and cuddle up to me. Instantly he puts his arms around me and then aallll is fine. Haha! Good luck~