I think that a thread about the same topic is already opened in this forum...
this may help a bit (I am not sure, it only gives you information):
How to wear Visual Kei clothing
I am here in Japan, but I don't think that I can help you with that... I mean, if it was a kimono or a yukata, I would've sent you by post... But I don't like those modern clothes at all~ gomenne~