[steven]

I don't mean to crush all that is meaningful and holy to you, but you don't "need" to "get to know" someone before getting into bed with them. I think it's something that a lot of people discover in their late teens/early twenties.

And redline, for the record I didn't take any offense to "Shogunistic". It sounds like it was a mistake on your part... but I wasn't sure at first because it really could've been on purpose. Let's just say you coined a new phrase that I think we all got a kick out of. It IS the Japan Forum, after all.