[dogsbody70]

thats very interesting indeed. I don't know how many couples with children could survive here if they did not take au pairs. Or Nannies if you can afford them. But of course there are lots of nurseries and preschool groups but all very expensive. Of course here in UK also often grandparents do help out alot, but they should not be expected to do it all the time. What age do children start school or are there preschool groups in Japan?

In many ways the au pair system is a good way for young women in particular to go to another country and help learn the language as they work.

thanks again for info.