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Originally Posted by edelweiss
Keep in ind that he could just be keeping you as the perpetual back-up plan. He wanted your permission to see the other girl so if things went wrong you'd be there as Plan Two so he wouldn't be alone.
If the same girl or some other girl comes along and takes place Number One again and he still tries to stay on good terms with you than he is just using you in between the girls he really wants to be with. Like a security blanket.
This may make you feel needed but you have to think of what you want in life.
Bad guy of good guy isn't the issue. Do you always want to be in second place? It is not good for your self esteem.
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Dear Edelweiss,
I find it difficult to be convinced of what u say, from my point of view: if he wanted to make her a 'Plan B' , then he would simply keep telling her on the phone how much he misses her and stuff only and not mentioning anything about his ex-girl friend (gf), but telling her that his ex-gf wants to go out on a date with him and him asking her for permission and finally confessing that his ex gf ignored him .. i think he's just being honest.
If he wanted to leave her as 'Plan B', then he would not mention anything about his ex-gf, and even if he mentioned and went out with her, he would have said that he doesn't like her or even that he ignored her.
Best Regards.