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08-13-2010, 02:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Sheemy View Post
If what you say is true, then there are 2 possibilities ...
1) He is not a serious guy and just wants to play arround and stuff but in that case i guess he made a mistake by asking her to go out with his ex gf or even mentioning anything about his ex gf. i myself find that possibility too week.
2) he's a good and honest guy who has an open mind and respects Nobora and still loves her.
remember that we dunno why they broke up from the first place ... maybe they love each other but just can't quite understand each other ... in that case no one is to be blamed.... that was just an example.
First, I want to point out any given advice is only meant to be taken into consideration. One has the right to exercise and choose which advice best fit their situation. After all, she is the one that will ultimately make any type of decisions and we are only here to offer our opinion and advice.

Second, it is my years of professional study and experience (I am a Psychologist) history have shown me that most guys who would end their relationship with their girlfriend and begin a new one with the previous, often shows continuation affection toward the ex. In many cases, the love/feeling for the previous ex never went away and still holds true during the next relationship (in this case, Nobora.)

Third, mostly like it is true her boyfriend is yet matured enough to decide what is best for the relationship. The boyfriend so far, only thinks what is best for him and not for both of them.

Lastly, action sets precedence as the boyfriend clearly has shown immaturity. If he truly loved her, and family issues got in the way of their relationship, it is highly unlike for him to start dating the previous girlfriend if he was truly in love with Nobora.


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