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Originally Posted by KylieHJensen
First, I want to point out any given advice is only meant to be taken into consideration. One has the right to exercise and choose which advice best fit their situation. After all, she is the one that will ultimately make any type of decisions and we are only here to offer our opinion and advice.
Second, it is my years of professional study and experience (I am a Psychologist) history have shown me that most guys who would end their relationship with their girlfriend and begin a new one with the previous, often shows continuation affection toward the ex. In many cases, the love/feeling for the previous ex never went away and still holds true during the next relationship (in this case, Nobora.)
Third, mostly like it is true her boyfriend is yet matured enough to decide what is best for the relationship. The boyfriend so far, only thinks what is best for him and not for both of them.
Lastly, action sets precedence as the boyfriend clearly has shown immaturity. If he truly loved her, and family issues got in the way of their relationship, it is highly unlike for him to start dating the previous girlfriend if he was truly in love with Nobora.
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Dear Kylie,
from what i understood from the very begining of the thread ... the first post by Nobora, i understood that they broke up and then his ex-gf asked him on a date (he didn't ask her on a date) and he told Nobora about that date and he was asking her what to do .... now knowing that they broke up because of family issues which means that they did NOT choose to break up, things are clear for me ... he is deeply hurt and it looks like there is no way they could return to each other because of the family issues and his ex gf (which he already loved her before) asked him out on a date ...
maybe he made a mistake by going out with her as she cheated him before, but i guess u know in such sitiuations like being deeply hurt, making mistakes is very possible especially at the begining.