please explain to me because this seems a bit..well a whole lot wierd to me.
so... the basic idea is, that there, apperantly, is so huge number of these hardcore fans who in their minds "are dating" these celebreties, so the companies include in contracts these points about the idol not beeing allowed dating? just so not to hurt their fan feelings?
and..like. its normal?
P.S then there is one more thing...ive seen those human size pillows with anime girl characters on them that fans have...so. its like everyday occurence for a guy (fan) to have one also?
dont take these questions the wrong way. just trying to understand the culture that im going to study.