yup it's called visual-kei...and it's mostly about the look that's why they wear make up and sometimes girlish clothes^^
this is bou from antique cafe...he's probably the most girlish boy you'll ever see...that's why i don't like ancfae that much xD
if he was a girl he would be a damn pretty girl...but now he's a pretty guy that wants to be girl xD or at least he looks like one