[KyleGoetz]

Originally Posted by princessmarisa

I am really confused why there is even a debate here, unless it is a British thing anyway....

Of course you only thank after someone has done something (like a service) and you say please before.

How can you thank someone before you know if they will even do it?

I can't recall if any of my British or Australian friends have done this, but in America, it is customary to say "thanks" or "thank you" after making the request.

For example:

Could you make seven copies of this? Thanks.

Also, in an email:

Dear Mr. T:

Johnson told me I should speak to you about a new position that has opened up at your company. Could I treat you to lunch and discuss the opening?

Thank you,
Mr. Deuteronomy