[xYinniex]

Uhm I agree with MMM, Financial security is high on my list if I were to be married. I'd want me and my boyfriend (Hypothetically) to have a stable income, to have lived together for year and earned enough for a house deposit before i consider getting married.

Have you thought this through, How long have you known this guy? How do you know whether he's just trying to get a visa, if he's not originally from your country.