[JohnBraden]

I've never thought that or have been given that impression.

I've been in Japan 3 times, twice for 11 days and once for 2 years. While I love to visit and would like to spend more than 11 days at a time, I know that living there for me wouldn't be wise. Even if I was fluent, the difference in culture would be hard to get accustomed to. Then there's the underlying hints of racism that exist. It's quite subtle at times but it's there. They have cool customs and traditions, while others are not so nice. One has to take the good with the bad and weigh it as a whole, while not criticizing something you're not fully knowledgeable about. While I've been there on more than one occasion, I've only scratched the very surface of what's really there, but I can tell that it's not hunky-dory for most people.

I read what people say here and take it with a grain or two of salt. While some have this googly-eyed view of Japan and would love to live there without actually having been there, others have a more realistic view of things. Age may have something to do with some of the views and opinions, but I can't generalize.

I've read some of your answers that may be construed as "hating", but never felt that was your intention or feeling. I can like the culture and hate the food. It doesn't mean I hate the place or wouldn't live there. I'd just change my gastronomical approach to living there, that's all. I'd at least try the food instead of dismissing it outright, but that one aspect wouldn't be my only way to judge and entire country.

I think I've rambled on too long on and am starting to make no sense. In conclusion, I never thought either one of you to be a "hater".... I don't like labeling people-it's not wise.