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Originally Posted by missprincess
i agree that women also use men for sex but i think the ratio to men doing it is much lower!
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I am curious what your basis is for this statement. I don't think it is simply an aggressor/victim situation. People who sleep around, sleep around. There isn't always a victim.
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Originally Posted by missprincess
secondly it doesnt matter how fun sex is, not goodness always comes out of it! what about all the std's less serious and more serious like aids etc that gets spread because of it?? a big reason that countries like africa have this problem with aids (and im not just making this up i actually watched a programme on it) is that they have alot of unprotected sex and then they contract it, get pregnant and pass it on to their kids who have no blame in it!
not to mention all the abortions and children who are born from such promiscuity to parents who prob dont even remember eachother let alone who can take care of the child! in england the other day in the paper it mentioned a 10 year old getting pregnant! thats the kind of thing u can expect to happen when u have such open views on sexuality in a country IMO
yes you could argue that if u have safe sex its ok, but not all contraceptives work all the time! thats a fact, they arent a guarantee!
either way to each his own, IMO ppl shud wait till they get married, sorry if i offended anyone  |
You're moral stance is clear, and I wasn't arguing against it. Go with what you believe in.
However, this will not become a religious discussion. They always end with bad blood and no resolution. Let's stay on the topic of Japanese views on dating, and not Christianity in Africa.