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Originally Posted by chiuchimu
JBesides, at 18 years old, a relationship will no doubt turn to the sexual, and that could lead to a pregnancy. I don't think her parents consented to her studying a year over seas for her to comeback pregnant.
You're only 18 and never had a girlfriend yet, that is super inexperienced. Yet, you want to start an interracial relationship on your first crush. I highly advise against it until you give it some time.
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I'm not so sure that is totally true, just because they are 18 does not mean they are destined to have a sexual relationship and her get pregnant. That's really reaching out there. And not having an interracial relationship on your first crush? What's that about? You think he ought to "work up" to being able to having a relationship with a girl of another race? That seems a little racist itself. My b/f and I are similar, he's the first guy I've dated and I'm his first g/f, we are in that age group and we have never had sex, we are waiting till we marry. Also I'm a Japanese girl by race but fully British by being born here. Maybe its because in England I see so many more interracial couples than I have in some other countries. I don't know but, its not been any issue with us.
anyhow, I say go for it, get to know her, have fun, that's what its all about, enjoying each others company, don't even think about being a couple yet, just enjoy things and don't pressure yourself.