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Originally Posted by steven
Don't get me wrong! In Southern CA it seemed like the majority of people got divorced (I would not be surprised if the rate is over 50%). I'd say it's a fraction of that here. If I were to guess I'd say 5-10%.
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How things play out in Southern CA are different than almost anywhere else in the world.
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Originally Posted by steven
I've heard people be almost frank and open about their extra-relationships. And dogsbody70, I think that the places 'salary-men go after work' are like snacks. Just a place to hang out with scantily clad women who'll pour your drinks and talk to you and sing karaoke with you and stuff like that.
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To be clear, snack bars are not populated with "scantily clad" women. Generally snack hostesses wear colorful versions of business type wear (skirts with blouses and jackets).
Also to be clear, snack hostesses do not traditionally sleep with their clients. It's a bar, not a whorehouse.
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Originally Posted by steven
That culture seems to be completely accepted. Believe it or not, but salary women will get invited to those places as well.
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Why would you say that? When I worked at a high school I went with colleagues to snack bars all the time (often with female teachers). No one went there to have sex, we went there to have good service and conversation.