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Originally Posted by Suki
But the truth is, I always go for that stuff cause necklaces and clothes, a woman can never get enough of them, not because I think it is something "special" or put much thought into it.
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Never bought my wife any jewellry or clothing in the 13 years we've been together and doubt I ever will. Even the engagement ring was a hand me down from my grandmother. I prefer to give her experiences rather than trinkets and material items. Experiences she remembers for years. Like going out to the best restaurant in town, or staying in a fancy hotel for a weekend or treat her to a day at a spa getting massages, manicures and such things.
On her birthday recently for instance (we couldn't go away as we were both working) I got up early and made her breakfast in bed, let her stay in bed later than usual and got our little girl ready for day care. I had a birthday cake delivered to work (we work at the same company) and when we got home I ran her a bath with some relaxation bath salts I'd got her and she bathed whilst I cooked dinner. Finally gave her a card thanking her for all the great stuff she does in our marriage. Didn't have to worry about going out and trying to find the right gift. Just gave her a great day to remember and she definitely appreciated it.
Think beyond just getting material items. Think about giving your mum an experience she'll remember for many years to come. Maybe tickets to a live show or something else she may be interested in or always wanted to do. Experiences you can look back on over the years are worth far more than some trinkets as far as I'm concerned. And never underestimate the value of a heartfelt card expressing thanks and your love for someone. That will work whether you're 5 or 55 or beyond.