[dogsbody70]

I would have thought that how couples sleep at night is there own business.


part of sleeping witjh a partner is having cuddles that would not probably happen if in a separate bed. Hugs are wonderful. doesn't always have to end in sex. also talking in bed can be lovely. when both are relaxed.


We separated many years ago-- separate rooms--mainly due to my husbands snoring--- I found it hard to begin with but now Love having my own space.

He loves doing crosswords-- I love to read in bed. I am very fidgety-- it would be unfair to disturb myhusband when I am so restless. Of course SPACE can be a way to stay in a double bed-- or I imagine Futons are easy to move about. Of course I am in my seventies so guess that makes a difference too LOL.

When I was in childrens homes, we loved to chat in the dormitory--its in the dark that one can relax and share thoughts etc.

to each his or her own I say whereever you live.