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I think it's depend on the situation...

in large group most likely there will be higher intimidate percentage. because the man will start to wonder (alot) if it's OK to take the risk of talking with this girl and what are the percentage that he will not say something stupid\get burned\get reject in front of large audience.
In smaller groups\1on1 the man will think that the percentage of being humiliate will be reduce and it will be just between them -"no one see , no one should know".

tbh if you know the girl (how she act, social group ect.) you can "adjust" yourself in the beginning...but give a spark of your own true colors , cause if not it's not worth it, inside you will be the same squishy man as you were before.