[Kayci]

Yes I am american...which is bad for me cause being sexy sells. I was born with blonde hair, I have blue eyes. But Now I'm a reddish/brown hair small girl. I get made fun of by "friends" for having no upper area, and trying to be like girls on tv depresses me



Well, I guess its the vibe you're doing. I don't know...
I think if you're noticably being clumsy or making silly childish jokes, that may bring 'em to you, no matter the vibe. If you present yourself as more down to earth, the vibe can be ignored

There is a really sexy gorgeous girl I know. Guys only want her for a pillow encounter, girls are scared of her. She is hard to approach...busty, sexy, etc...until she does something totally dweeby like snort her drink out of her nose or fall while playing with a big dog. After she draws attention to herself in a very non-sexy way, people around her relax and get to know her.

Same with my best friend. The girl who got boobs in junior high, that was her. She looked sexy as a kid, and that was kind of disturbing the attention she got. But now she covers up. Only heels she'd wear are her elf boots. (by the way, this girl kicks my ass in nerdiness. DnD DM, Magick the Gathering, Video games, etc.)
She is very modest in dress, and uses personality. All the way. She's stubborn and intelligent, and proves to be a challenge.

Incidentally, we look alike facial and such. Our hair darkened at the same time. Before puberty we looked so much like sisters...now she looks adult, lovely, and I still look like waiting for puberty. LOL (we're only 17 days apart.)

Try to do something...Earthy? Like if you trip and laugh it off, that makes you more endearing, I personally think.
IDK...its hard.