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Originally Posted by missprincess
and how are the guys supposed to know if im humble or not till they talk to me - and there not gonna do that till they actually make an effort to approach me and they wont do that till they think im humble and cute enough to approach (sighs) its like a vicious catch 22 cycle  |
Its relly simple. They watch how you interact with the other people around you. The humility may not be obvious, but arrogance, in even the smallest quantity, will be.
I get very different reactions from a guy who has watched me interact with strangers, bartenders, and waitstaff, than from a guy who has been eavesdroppping on my political/sociological conversations with friends.
In the first case, they pick up on the polite, considerate and agreeable side of me. But in the other case, I often come across as more than a bit intimidating. The latter gets the guys I really enjoy keeping company with, but those who will work past that initimidation factor are few and far between.