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Originally Posted by missprincess
ok so your friend likes a girl whose taller then him and that girl doesnt like short guys?
hmmm i think if he already doesnt then he should get to know her first, you dont wanna go and ask her out straight away, if he does know her and she doesnt like shorter guys then i wouldnt ask her out, you dont wanna ruin the friendship - but i would try somehow to ask her in general conversation if she would ever consider a guy shorter than her and if she says yes then problem solved if she says no then forget her and move on, there plenty of other girls out there
hope it helps
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Hm..I'll absolutely tell my friend about that thanks for the help. Oh another question but this is honesty for me :P!
In my Sophmore year of highschool at the moment. Starting the very first day I ever went to highschool I changed completely cause of my ex now I actually consider acting stupid or doing stupid stuff to make ppl laugh or before i didnt cause i consider it dumb to act stupid or do something to make myself look stupid but the girls now im doing it to make them smile,laugh or cheer up when they sad, I also now Im the one starting the conversation and always make sure the girl im talking with is never bored,laughing and happy and always bring a conversation up if i think shes bored,and lastly,my shyness is gone now so i can easily talk to girls now and not be shy or be all akward when around them but, because of this change im not considered shy,quiet,emo or w/e but now weird or strange but very caring and funny :P! But even so non of the girls I known want to go farther above then the friendzone which is really saddening for me T^T
(NOW FOR THE QUESTION! sorry for caps...) Can you explain to me what exactly might be the reason no one would want to go above the friendzone or would want to consider that o.o? All my friends i been with them for a year except a few but still, and they know me very well same for me knowing them,I went through good and bad times with them and always somehow got them to cheer up or help them during the bad...(which why they consider me caring xP)..They dont really mind if it went farther then friendzone nor would it cause a problem with friendship(might make it akward but somehow it'll still be the same) but in the end none want too.(I also have a job so I have a upperhand then other guys I know and they also dont like any guy right now that i know of.) As for the reason I dont know which is actully exactly what i want to find out from a fellow person of the opposite gender.