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Originally Posted by Natoshin
Ahaha its fine if you were a bit harsh cause reality itself is harsh sometime gotta handle whatever.Anyhow the answer you gave me some of the things you said were really useful I'll be sure to remember that but the part about a few weeks then asking another girl, before I stated above for each kinda... 4-5 months apart did i ask them out or such since one,im not desperate,and two, well I know it spreads like a wild fire and i also take the friendship into consideration aswell as their feelings and to be sure if it cant go any further then a friend thats when i finally realize wow it surely wont at all and sadly giveup and yea I guess i shouldnt assume but the thing is the few of them i had a partner in crime or a good friend thats really close to them to find some stuff out for me aswell and thats how i found out they liked me.Though its true if one of them find out a guy(me) had been asking a few of their friends out b4 them that they didnt know and he(me) then came to them of course they would turn me down but like i just said in this post I have a partner in crime/friend to know and such about that.Since all that pulls together thats actually why im asking cause even when they know me,I know they like me,I have a friend to help me find out stuff from them and such it stills ends up in the scenario : No or Rejected.So the last part which gave me advice about having a friend find out those stuff for me wouldnt exactly work cause i actually did it and found out stuff such as they liked me or what not but still get denied.Anyhow the idea of having a friend,and most of the things you told me I kinda already know from experiences. So yea...  . |
hmmm that is strange, if they say they like you and dont wanna go out with you?? and more then one of them say that i cant understand why myself, i mean if it was one girl - granted ok id believe she was just shy or something - but more then one? hmmmm are u sure your friend is telling the truth and if he is he shud ask them why they wont go out with you if they do like you? maybe they could give u a better explanation then me