Sounds like a movie plot in development, I wonder what you did to deserve that kind of treatment... I mean, since you don't seem to have any issues with making your personal info public anyways,
If you know/remember Japanese culture, non-communication with people you've moved on from is the norm.
So that last thing you said about just telling you, it's unlikely.
I feel for you though, if I knew her I'd tell her about you
